Men pride themselves in offering solutions to problems. “ That’s a lame solution, I have a better idea!” If you don’t feel turned on by his body, you might as well call the relationship quits. Show him that you do get turned on by both his physical and mental attributes.īut then again, you don’t need to fake it.
ANOTHER WORD FOR TURN OFF IN DATING FULL
Shower his body with kisses, caresses his body, give him full hugs and look at his body admiringly. So never shy away from complimenting your man’s body. If you do not show any signs of getting turned on, his own interest in you will start declining over time. Just like you want your man to get ‘turned on’ by your body, he wants you to get equally ‘turned on’ by his body.
ANOTHER WORD FOR TURN OFF IN DATING DRIVER
To his male brain, you telling him that he is not a good driver implies that you don’t feel safe with him and that you don’t trust his abilities as a man. So comments that even remotely imply that he is a bad driver will not go down well with him. This plays on their primary need to be in control. Men pride themselves on their ability to drive and get you places. Statements like the above can shut down a man. “ Are you sure this is the right route?“. 7.) Commenting negatively on his driving skills A comment like the above will make him feel that you do not consider him man enough and will put him off. Most men want to appear manly and want their girlfriend to see them that way. This statement might seem utterly harmless from your point of view, but for a man, this can be devastating. 6.) Downplaying his physical attributesĬonsider this statement: “ Oh, your fingers are so small and soft!” Never compare him to your father, brother(s), relative(s), colleague(s) your boss or your guy friends.Ī statement like, “ My dad is so good at this he would have repaired this sink in no time“, is not very reassuring and not something that your man wants to hear when he is trying his best to fix the sink.Įven though you may not find anything wrong with that statement, for him, it rings in the message that you don’t find him competent enough. 5.) Comparing him to other menĪvoid comparing your man to other men. Many feminists would like men to conform to certain unnatural standards that are completely contrary to a manly nature.Ī woman who depicts such an attitude would soon find her man running away from her. In spite of this there are certain people, in each sex, that end up becoming chauvinistic.Ī feministic attitude, or a bossy nature, in a woman is what men find extremely irritating, and it’s a big turn off. And it’s quite obvious that a man needs a woman to complete him and vice versa. 4.) Being a female chauvinistĪ man and a woman are made in the image of God as the Bible puts it. Women on the other hand have no clue what the fuss is all about, after all they are only trying to “improve” their man. Most men complain about the hard time they have contending with the continuous complaints and scorns that their wife dishes out in the name of self improvement. There is something about men that gets women to nag them especially as the relationship ages. If you get overly possessive about him it would just turn him off. To keep the guy interested you must remain to be a challenge. If a guy finds out a girl is “chasing” him, he is bound to lose his interest in her. Men are usually the “chasers” and they like to stay that way. A man would be much happier if his woman is willing to talk out the issues instead of starting a cold war.
It is but obvious that this can be highly irritating. The usual reply to all the queries that a guy puts through would be a pert “nothing”. They put on a cold front and refuse to reply in a normal manner. Most women have a tendency to use “silent” treatment when they are hurt or angry about a certain behavior in their man. But as humans, men are just as prone to being repulsed by certain tendencies in women which induce a complete turn off. Men get turned on at the drop of a hat, and most women know that it does not take much for them to have a man jumping the hoops. As the saying goes, girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice, which is why they are perfectly complementary to men. Women are called the “fairer” sex for a reason, they are inherently capable of being more dainty and pleasing than the “grosser” sex, the men.